"A lot of the things we choose to keep remembering keep us stuck here on earth.
Another option is for us to stay in a state of forgiveness, which is a state of grace.
Historically, we can see that those human beings who lived in the state of grace, as a statement of their lives, became the saints.
To live as a saint is to be living in grace and extending grace. Even when you want to tell somebody off, the words come out differently, and the person senses the grace you are ext...ending to them, when you really had all the right, authority, and moral and ethical positions to have laid them low. When you withheld it, grace went in its place. That's the forgiving that continues on, and you will not finish up the forgiving until your last breath."
My prayer is to continue focusing on what I want, use the Light and the Prayers to prepare the way, and forgive myself when my anger, my fear, my doubt come forward. Continue to do the best I can.
May you bring joy and peace to this day.
Painting of St John by Paul Rubens